People often get upset and there are loads of reasons for
this to happen, but when you know that you can easily avoid that, why not?
Usually I get upset when other people let me down. Even if it’s
only about cancelling arranged meeting or saying ‘no’ to an invitation or the suggestion that the person knows it’s something important to me. BUT, when you
don’t expect anything, none can let you down! Think about the fact that the
only person you can rely on is yourself and be loyal to yourself. If it’s about
task for uni or school, just make sure that you won’t get in a trouble if your
partner doesn’t finish his task. If it’s a party and you have any doubts that
your friend would show up, just get a film that you always wanted to watch and
do it by yourself and enjoy it! That’s how you can save yourself from getting upset
by irresponsible people!
Other thing upsetting me, what concerns other people is lack
of attention shown. What I recently realised is that other people don’t read my
mind… presumably, they don’t know when I need more attention and pulling
yourself and other person in a fight because of this misunderstanding is not a
solution. I can never admit to another person that I get angry because of lack
of attention shown. And I know why – it’s because I’m ashamed of that as I know
that it’s the most stupid thing to get mad about. Solution – overstep yourself
and say that you need attention. Or, if it’s too hard for you, try another
solution – show more attention to the person you want to get it from. If it doesn’t
help, maybe that person is not worth wasting your time?
The only person who is not allowed to upset me is me myself.
I sometimes still do that, but I’m getting there! Such a pleasure when you know
that the person who will never let you down is always with me. Well, it is me ;)
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